One of the challenges Amaya has had during this surgery and recovery has been her loss of independence. It's been mentally and emotionally challenging on her to have to become so dependent on us these past few months. For us it's hard to balance helping her without making her feel powerless and not taking it personal when we're the ones who she takes her frustration out on. Surgeries and the recovery process change the dynamic of our home each time. It's hard (painful, frustrating, and challenging) on all of us not just Amaya. Thankfully, we have a loving and supportive home life and support network.
This past week we've had some victories and have seen a return of Amaya's independence. Amaya did her own laundry, has been given the green light to drop down to one crutch (for outdoor walking), she tackled stairs at school (this was unplanned since the elevator wasn't working and she had to get up to class. But she did it and was steady and felt safe doing so), and she's started doing more chores around the house. She's also able to do some "small things" like carry her own dinner plate to the table, return dishes, grab a drink, etc. When she had the walker it wasn't safe to do so. These small things are all adding up to be a big thing.